If the other parent has kept your child past the agreed time, or has taken your child without your agreement, you have options under Australian family law — most importantly, a court "recovery order" that can require your child to be returned and direct police to find and recover them. This page sets out clearly how recovery orders work, what to do now, and where to get urgent help. It is free legal information, not legal advice about your specific situation.
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There is no fixed legal deadline for applying, but acting promptly matters: the longer your child stays in the new arrangement, the harder a recovery order can become to obtain, because a court may treat the child as having settled. Getting advice early generally helps your application.
Do I need an existing parenting order to apply for a recovery order?
No. You can apply even if you have never been to court. Under section 67T of the Family Law Act, a parent, grandparent, or any other person concerned with the child's care, welfare and development can apply. If you do not already have a parenting order, you can apply for one at the same time as the recovery order.
Is the other parent keeping my child a crime?
Usually no. Withholding a child is generally a family law (civil) matter resolved by a recovery order, not a police criminal matter. It can become criminal if a child is taken, sent or kept outside Australia in breach of orders or while parenting proceedings are on foot, which is an offence under the Family Law Act. State or territory police also act where there is family violence or a child is in immediate danger.
How fast can a recovery order be made?
Recovery applications can be filed and heard urgently. Genuinely urgent matters — for example, where you fear the child will be harmed or removed from Australia — can sometimes be brought on within days rather than waiting for a normal hearing date. Acting promptly can also help your application, because delay may let a court treat the child as settled in the new arrangement.
What if I don't know where my child is?
You can apply for a location order (or a Commonwealth Information Order) at the same time as your recovery order. These can require people, or government departments such as Centrelink and Medicare, to give the court information about your child's whereabouts.
Can I just go and take my child back myself?
It is strongly discouraged. "Self-recovery" can escalate conflict, endanger your child, breach existing orders and seriously damage your case. The safer and more effective path is a recovery order, which can direct police to find and recover the child for you.
I'm worried my child will be taken overseas. What can I do?
Act urgently. You can ask the court to place your child on the Australian Federal Police Family Law Watchlist (the airport watch list) to help prevent them leaving the country, and seek urgent court orders. If you believe removal is about to happen right now, call 000. Taking a child overseas in breach of orders can be a criminal offence.
Does this work the same way in Western Australia?
The same federal law (the Family Law Act 1975) applies, but the court and forms are different. In WA, family law is handled by the separate Family Court of Western Australia, rather than the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia that hears these matters everywhere else.
Can Legal Hotline lodge the application or represent me?
No. Legal Hotline is a free legal-information service and is not a law firm, so we cannot file documents or represent you. We can explain how the process works at any hour, and book you a fixed-fee consultation with an admitted Australian lawyer who can advise on your situation and act for you. For immediate danger, call 000.
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