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De Facto Separation

Separating from a de facto partner? In most of Australia you have the same property and parenting rights as a married couple — but usually only two years from the day you split to bring a property or maintenance claim to court. Call the free hotline now to find out where you stand and get a family lawyer on it fast.

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There is a strict two-year clock. You generally must apply to the Federal Circuit and Family Court for a de facto property or maintenance order within two years of the day you separated. After that you need the court's special permission to apply, which is not guaranteed. The safest move is to get advice today, before the deadline narrows your options.

De Facto Separation at a glance

Time limit to apply
Usually within 2 years of the date you separated — and it's strict
Your rights
De facto partners generally have the same property and parenting rights as married couples
Which law applies
The federal Family Law Act 1975 for relationships that ended after 1 March 2009 — except in Western Australia, which has its own de facto law
Where you apply
The Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (the Family Court of Western Australia if you're in WA)
Gateway to apply
Generally the relationship lasted at least 2 years, OR there is a child, OR one partner made significant contributions, OR the relationship was registered
What "de facto" means
Two people, same or opposite sex, who lived together as a couple on a genuine domestic basis — not just flatmates
What can be decided
Splitting property, superannuation and debts, partner maintenance, and arrangements for any children

What counts as a de facto relationship

A de facto relationship is two people — of the same or opposite sex — who lived together as a couple on a genuine domestic basis, without being married to each other. It's not about a single label or a piece of paper; it's about the reality of how you lived.

When deciding whether a relationship was genuinely de facto, the court weighs up the whole picture: how long you were together, whether you lived under the one roof, whether your finances were shared or intertwined, whether you owned property together, whether there was a sexual relationship, whether you have children together, and how committed you were to a shared life. No single one of these is essential, and you don't need to tick every box — it's the overall combination that counts.

That's also why two people can honestly disagree about whether they were ever "de facto" at all. If your ex is denying the relationship to keep you out of a property split, that's exactly the kind of thing a quick, free call can help you sort out before you do anything else. Talk it through with a lawyer now →

You have the same rights as a married couple

This surprises a lot of people. For relationships that broke down after 1 March 2009, de facto partners can ask the court to decide property and financial matters in the same way as married couples, under the same federal Family Law Act, using the same forms and the same principles. There is no second-class treatment because you never married.

The court can divide property, superannuation and debts, and can order partner maintenance where one of you genuinely can't support themselves and the other can afford to help. Arrangements for any children of the relationship are dealt with in exactly the same way as for the children of married parents.

So if anyone has told you that "you weren't married, so you get nothing", treat that as a warning sign rather than the truth. Get your own advice before you accept it. Talk it through with a lawyer now →

Can you actually apply to the court?

Before the court will divide your property or order maintenance, your relationship needs to clear one of a few gateways. You generally qualify if at least one of these is true:

• the de facto relationship lasted at least two years in total; or
• there is a child of the de facto relationship; or
• one partner made significant financial or non-financial contributions (including as homemaker or parent), and it would be a serious injustice if no order were made; or
• the relationship was registered under a state or territory relationship register.

A lot of people wrongly assume the two-year figure is the only way in — it isn't. Even a shorter relationship can qualify if there's a child or substantial contributions. If there's any doubt about whether you're eligible, don't rule yourself out — a short call will tell you. Talk it through with a lawyer now →

The two-year deadline is everything

This is the single most important point on this page. You generally have just two years from the date you separated to apply to the court for a de facto property settlement or maintenance order. Miss that window and you lose the automatic right to apply.

It isn't completely the end of the road — the court can give special permission to apply late, but only in limited situations, usually where real hardship would result. That permission is never guaranteed, and relying on it is a gamble you don't want to take. Working out exactly when your relationship "ended" can itself be tricky, especially if you drifted apart or kept living under one roof for a while. The safest thing by far is to get advice early and apply in good time. If you're anywhere near two years, call now. Talk it through with a lawyer now →

How property and finances are sorted out

Dividing things up isn't a simple 50-50 split. The court works through a structured process: it identifies and values everything you each own and owe — including the home, savings, superannuation, businesses and debts — then weighs up what each of you contributed (money, work, looking after children and the home), and finally adjusts for each person's future needs, such as care of children, health, age and earning capacity.

Most separating couples never need a courtroom. Many reach an agreement and have it made official and binding, either through consent orders or a formal financial agreement. Getting that paperwork right matters: a casual handshake deal can fall apart later and leave you exposed. Knowing what a fair outcome looks like before you negotiate is a real advantage — it's the difference between accepting the first offer and getting a proper one. Talk it through with a lawyer now →

If you separated in Western Australia

Western Australia is the exception. De facto property and maintenance matters there are not run under the federal Family Law Act — they're dealt with under WA's own state law, in the Family Court of Western Australia. (Parenting matters for children of de facto couples are still handled in that same WA court.)

In practice the broad ideas — the genuine-domestic-basis test, the gateways, and a comparable two-year window to apply — are similar to the rest of the country, but the legislation and some of the detail differ. If you separated in WA, this is one area where getting WA-specific advice really matters. Mention where you are when you call and we'll point you to the right help. Talk it through with a lawyer now →

Mistakes that cost de facto partners dearly

• Letting the two years slip past — by far the most common and most expensive mistake.
• Believing "we weren't married, so I'm not entitled to anything" — when in fact you may have the same rights as a spouse.
• Assuming a short relationship can't qualify, when a child or significant contributions can open the door.
• Doing an informal "you keep the car, I keep the couch" deal with no binding paperwork — leaving it open to be reopened later.
• Forgetting that superannuation is property too, and can be split.
• Moving money, hiding assets or running up debts after separating — it can backfire badly when the court looks at the full picture. Talk it through with a lawyer now →

How Legal Hotline helps — right now

Separating is stressful enough without a legal deadline hanging over you. Legal Hotline is a free service you can call any time, day or night. In a single call we'll help you work out whether your relationship counts as de facto, what you may be entitled to, whether you're still in time, and what your next move should be.

If you need a lawyer, we'll connect you with an experienced family lawyer who can act for you — anywhere in Australia, usually within the hour. There's no cost to call and no obligation. If you've split from a de facto partner and you're unsure where you stand, the smartest first step is simply to pick up the phone. Talk it through with a lawyer now →

How a de facto property matter usually unfolds

1
Get advice and work out your deadlinePin down when you actually separated and how long you have left of the two-year window, confirm your relationship clears one of the gateways, and get a realistic picture of where you stand. A free call is the fastest way to do this.
2
Disclose and value everythingBoth partners are expected to be honest and open about what they own and owe — property, savings, superannuation, businesses and debts — so the full financial picture is on the table.
3
Negotiate a settlementMost matters settle by agreement, often with the help of lawyers or mediation, without anyone going to court for a fight.
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Make it official and bindingAn agreement is locked in through consent orders or a formal financial agreement. If you can't agree, an application is filed with the court — within the two-year limit — and a judge decides.

De Facto Separation — your questions answered

How long do I have to claim after a de facto separation?

Generally two years from the date you separated. After that you need the court's special permission to apply late, which is only given in limited circumstances and is never guaranteed. Don't wait — call as soon as you can so you don't lose your rights.

Do de facto partners get the same as married couples?

For relationships that ended after 1 March 2009, yes — outside Western Australia you can ask the court to decide property, superannuation, maintenance and children's matters in the same way as a married couple, under the same federal law. Western Australia has its own de facto law, but the protections are broadly similar.

How do I know if we were really in a de facto relationship?

It comes down to whether you lived together as a couple on a genuine domestic basis. The court looks at things like how long you were together, shared finances, living arrangements, children and your commitment to a shared life. No single factor decides it, and disputes are common — a quick call can help you work out where you stand.

We were together less than two years — can I still claim?

Possibly. A relationship under two years can still qualify if there is a child of the relationship, if one of you made significant contributions and it would be a serious injustice to make no order, or if the relationship was registered. Don't assume you're shut out — check first.

Can my superannuation or my ex's super be split?

Yes. Superannuation is treated as property in a de facto separation and can be divided as part of the overall settlement. It's an asset people often forget, and overlooking it can cost you a lot.

Does it matter that I separated in Western Australia?

Yes, it changes which law applies. WA de facto property and maintenance matters run under Western Australia's own state law in the Family Court of Western Australia, not the federal Family Law Act. The broad ideas are similar, but the detail differs — so WA-specific advice matters. Tell us where you are when you call.

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Last updated 6 June 2026
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